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What If Your Marriage Felt Easier?
Right now...
You might be feeling like marriage is harder than it should be.
You love your partner, but some days, it feels like you’re speaking different languages.
Small misunderstandings turn into big frustrations.
You long for the connection and ease you had in the beginning, but you’re not sure how to get back there.
Now, imagine this instead…
✅ You and your partner understand each other deeply—even in difficult conversations.
✅ Conflict doesn’t spiral—you resolve issues without resentment building up.
✅ You feel safe, supported, and truly seen in your marriage.
✅ Instead of drifting apart, you grow closer—even through life’s challenges.
This isn’t luck. It’s doesn't just happen to "certain couples.”
It’s about learning the right skills.
These six skills are the foundation of a marriage that doesn’t just last—but thrives.
And inside How to Be Married, you’ll learn exactly how to build that kind of relationship.
You don’t have to figure this out on your own.
Most couples struggle not because they don’t love each other, but because no one ever taught them how to communicate, work through conflict, and stay emotionally connected—especially when life gets busy or stressful.
That’s exactly why I created How to Be Married.
Inside this program, you’ll learn the 6 essential skills that every couple needs to build a marriage that lasts—one where you feel heard, understood, and deeply connected, even when challenges arise.
If you've ever thought, "Marriage shouldn't feel this hard" you're right. You just need the right skills.
How to Be Married can help you build the relationship you truly want
Nicole and James kept having the same fight.
They loved each other but kept getting stuck in the same painful cycle. Small disagreements would spiral into hours of tension, and neither of them felt truly heard.
Nicole felt like James didn’t care about her feelings. James felt like nothing he said was ever good enough.
Then, they learned something that changed everything: Their fears were running the show.
They realized Nicole got louder because she longed to feel understood, while James shut down because conflict felt like failure. Once they saw what was really happening, everything shifted.
Now, they stay calm in tough moments, communicate without triggering each other, and actually listen. Instead of growing distant, they grow closer.
This is exactly what How to Be Married is designed to do—help you break the cycles that push you apart and build the skills that bring you closer.
How to Be Married is a revolutionary program designed to address and prevent the core issues that often lead to unhealthy, unhappy marriages.
In this program, you and your partner will learn how to show up as your best selves—through every season of marriage.
You’ll build a foundation of open communication, create a deep and lasting emotional connection, and cultivate a fulfilling, thriving marriage that stands the test of time.
What You'll Learn: The 6 Core Skills
This isn’t just theory—it’s real, practical skills you can use today to strengthen your marriage.
You don’t have to wait for things to get worse before learning the skills that make marriage easier. The strongest couples don’t just hope for a great marriage—they build one. How to Be Married can help you do the same.
How to Be Married helps you build the foundation for your marriage by teaching you how to BE your best as individual partners who then come together and create the healthiest and happiest marriage possible.
Specifically you will:
--> Handle your triggers well so you don't lash out or shut down when conflict arises
--> Always know what to do in tough situations so you don't regret the things you did or said in the heat of the moment
--> Create connection and grow closer, instead of building up walls and hurting each other when you are upset
--> Be a united team so that you and your partner always feel like you are working together even when you don't agree
--> Have sensitive conversations that end well because you have the skills and tools to communicate well and truly listen to each other
--> Consistently get along and enjoy each other because you both cherish your relationship and prioritize spending time together
--> Create a safe, intimate connection where you can work through any issue with kindness, respect, empathy and vulnerability
This is the work that no one teaches couples in the beginning.
Problems go unaddressed and help is only sought in crisis situations.
You have the opportunity NOW to learn these critical skills and build a healthy, happy marriage that LASTS
Still curious if How to Be Married is right for you?
Let’s connect. Book an info call, and we’ll discuss where you are, where you want to be, and how this program can help you get there.
What does How to Be Married include?
The How to Be Married Course:
6 Core Modules with interactive video lessons
I guide you step-by-step through 6 essential skills in a simple, practical way. Each module includes hands-on exercises and tools you can use immediately. Videos are under 15 minutes and easily accessible on your phone—just like IG
Live Group Coaching Calls:
60-minute monthly coaching call
Receive my direct, on-the-spot guidance and advice for any questions you have, topics you want to discuss further, and issues you want additional support working through
Private Community:
Continuous, support and learning alongside other like-minded couples enrolled in the program
HOW TO BE MARRIED COURSE
MODULE 1:
YOUR PAST
- Connecting the dots between your childhood and how it shapes your marriage now
- Understanding the causes of triggers and how to handle them well
- Releasing the unhealed wounds and resentment that keeps you stuck
MODULE 2:
SELF LEADERSHIP
- Understanding who you are now, your beliefs and values
- Defining and becoming your best self
- Creating internal motivation and personal standards of behavior
MODULE 3:
YOUR EMOTIONS
- Naming and Identifying the root cause of your emotions
- Recognizing your reactions and learning to tolerate emotions
- Using proven emotional regulation tools that help keep you calm
MODULE 4:
MARRIAGE MINDSET
- Distinguishing between the Me vs. We Mentality
- Seeing the best in each other/assuming good will
- Building power thoughts for great results
MODULE 5:
COMMUNICATION SKILLS
- Defining and using solution- focused communication
- Bringing your best self to a difficult conversation
- Applying specific communication skills and conversation structures
MODULE 6:
CONNECTING SKILLS
- Defining what's healthy and unhealthy in a marriage
- Being vulnerable and creating emotional intimacy
- Demonstrating empathy, compassion and understanding
You will have access to the entire HTBM Curriculum for 12 months
MONTHLY COACHING CALLS
Inside How to Be Married, you won’t just learn what to do—you’ll get the personalized coaching and guidance to actually make it happen.
:: 1 LIVE coaching call each month where we go beyond the lessons and dive deep into real-life challenges, mindset shifts, and practical solutions.
:: Personalized coaching & feedback so you can get direct support on the issues that matter most to your marriage.
:: Step-by-step guidance & action plans so you always know what to do next.
:: A safe, judgment-free space to ask questions, share breakthroughs, and gain new perspectives.
Whether you’re navigating tough conversations, rebuilding connection, or simply wanting to strengthen your relationship, these calls give you the tools and clarity to move forward.
💻 All calls are conducted via Zoom and recorded, so you can get what you need anytime—even if you can’t attend live.
THE PRIVATE COMMUNITY
Every great marriage is built with support—and inside How to Be Married, you won’t just get coaching, you’ll get a community of couples who truly ‘get it.’”
Inside our private community, you’ll:
✔️ Find answers & support instantly when you feel stuck
✔️ See what’s working for others so you don’t have to figure it out alone
✔️ Be surrounded by a positive, growth-focused group that keeps you motivated
✔️ Have a safe, judgment-free space to talk about the challenges no one else sees
Imagine having a space where you can get encouragement on tough days, celebrate your wins with people who actually understand, and know you’re never alone in this journey.
The Cost of Waiting vs. The Power of Acting Now
Most couples wait until things feel really hard to work on their marriage.
But the best time to strengthen your relationship is now—when you still love each other, when you still want to make it work.
How to Be Married is designed to help you create the marriage you both deserve, before small problems turn into big ones.
The full How to Be Married Program includes everything you need to strengthen your marriage: expert guidance, practical tools, and real support—all for less than what most couples spend on wedding expenses, yet it gives you the skills to create a marriage that actually lasts.
Investment
Choose the option that works best for you
One-time payment of $1500
(best value)
6 Monthly Payments of $300
(most flexible)
Still not sure?
Let's have conversation so you can decide with confidence
You don’t have to wait for things to get really bad to get help for your marriage.
In fact, it's the small, everyday bumps that quietly add up over time to create a big crisis.
Investing in your marriage now will prevent those bumps from turning into major obstacles down the road.
It’s not about fixing things that are broken; it’s about ensuring you’re always growing together and building the strongest foundation for the marriage you want.
Picture waking up each morning feeling genuinely connected to your partner.
You’re not just 'getting by'—you’re communicating openly, handling small misunderstandings before they become issues, and knowing exactly how to show up as your best for each other.
Instead of tiptoeing around tough conversations, you lean into them with trust and respect, knowing you have the tools to communicate well.
No more frustration or feeling misunderstood—just easier and more enjoyable times together as a couple.
By the end of How to Be Married, you won’t just have skills - you'll have confidence and certainty.
You'll know that as a couple, you have everything you need to have a happy, healthy marriage that LASTS.