Creating a healthy, happy marriage is a skill-set that most couples are never taught.
Most expect that just because their dating experience was great, that they will automatically know how to be married well.
They expect to be able to navigate anything together.
They expect to always be committed to the success of the marriage.
They expect to always be able to find a way to work through their differences.
They expect to grow and evolve together and always feel like a united team.
But in my decade of experience coaching couples on the brink of divorce, these things DO NOT happen and there is a current set of skills that unhappy couples are missing that makes all the difference.
Certain themes emerge that clearly point to a lack of understanding, emotional maturity, know-how, and mindset to truly create a healthy, happy marriage that lasts.
I've boiled this down into 6 specific skills, that when mastered by both partners creates a thriving marriage that can not only stand the test of time but also be enjoyable, fulfilling, and genuinely happy.
When you have the right tools and guidance to master each of these, your marriage will not fail.
You and your partner can have any conversation and it ends on a good note.
You can communicate with ease and understanding and an open mind.
You feel closer, more on the same page, and excited about your life together.
Ready to have the foundation for a healthy, happy marriage that lasts?
How to Be Married is a revolutionary program for couples and is designed to address and prevent the core issues that lead to unhealthy and unhappy marriages.
In this program, you and your partner will learn how to consistently show up as your best selves through all seasons of your marriage so that you always have open communication, a safe, close connection, and a fulfilling and thriving marriage that lasts.
You will be equipped with the right teaching, coaching, tools and community of support to actually be happily married for a lifetime.
How to Be Married helps you build (or rebuild) the foundation for your marriage by teaching you how to BE your best as individual partners who then come together and create the healthiest and happiest marriage possible.
Specifically you will:
--> Handle your triggers well and stop lashing out or shutting down when conflict arises
--> Always know what to do in tough situations so you don't regret the things you did or said in the heat of the moment
--> Create connection and grow closer, instead of building up walls and hurting each other when you are upset
--> Become a united team so that you and your partner always feel like you are working together instead of against each other
--> Have more productive conversations that end well because you have the skills and tools to communicate well and truly listen to each other
--> Get along and enjoy each other more because you both cherish your relationship and prioritize spending time together
--> Create a safe, intimate connection where you can work through any issue with kindness, respect, empathy and vulnerability
This is the work that no one teaches couples in the beginning.
Problems go unaddressed and help is only sought in crisis situations.
You have the opportunity NOW to learn these critical skills and build (or rebuild) a healthy, happy marriage that LASTS
What does How to Be Married include?
How to Be Married program includes:
The How to Be Married Course:
6 Modules; 24 interactive video lessons
I guide you step-by-step through each of the 6 essential skills in a simple, relatable and practical way. Each module has hands-on exercises and tools you can use right away to put what you learn into practice. Each video is less than 15 minutes and can be accessed directly on your phone as easily as IG or TikTok.
Live Group Coaching Calls:
60-minute monthly coaching call
Receive my direct, on-the-spot guidance and advice for any questions you have, topics you want to discuss further, and issues you want additional support working through
Private Community:
Continuous, support and learning alongside other like-minded couples enrolled in the program
HOW TO BE MARRIED COURSE
MODULE 1:
YOUR PAST
- Connecting the dots between your childhood and how it shapes your marriage now
- Understanding the causes of triggers and how to handle them well
- Releasing the unhealed wounds and resentment that keeps you stuck
MODULE 2:
SELF LEADERSHIP
- Understanding who you are now, your beliefs and values
- Defining and becoming your best self
- Creating internal motivation and personal standards of behavior
MODULE 3:
YOUR EMOTIONS
- Naming and Identifying the root cause of your emotions
- Recognizing your reactions and learning to tolerate emotions
- Using proven emotional regulation tools that help keep you calm
MODULE 4:
MARRIAGE MINDSET
- Distinguishing between the Me vs. We Mentality
- Seeing the best in each other/assuming good will
- Building power thoughts for great results
MODULE 5:
COMMUNICATION SKILLS
- Defining and using solution- focused communication
- Bringing your best self to a difficult conversation
- Applying specific communication skills and conversation structures
MODULE 6:
CONNECTING SKILLS
- Defining what's healthy and unhealthy in a marriage
- Being vulnerable and creating emotional intimacy
- Demonstrating empathy, compassion and understanding
You will have access to the entire HTBM Curriculum for 12 months
MONTHLY COACHING CALLS
How to Be Married includes 12 group coaching calls each month where we dive deeper into the essential skills, answer your questions, help shift your mindset, and equip you with the tools to take action and set your marriage up for success.
You will receive personal coaching on these calls for any issues you need more support in working through.
The calls are conducted via Zoom and will be recorded if you cannot attend live.
THE PRIVATE COMMUNITY
You will be surrounded by a supportive community of other like-minded couples in a confidential and safe environment.
You will gain so much from being in the group and will learn from each other as you ask questions and receive guidance on how to handle some of the most common issues all couples face.
You also benefit from being immersed in a positive environment that promotes healthy marriages and healthy dynamics among men and women.
You'll have 24-hour access to a private community platform where you can ask questions, celebrate your successes and get on the spot support anytime you feel stuck.
Investment
PAYMENT PLAN
$300 / 6 months
PAY IN FULL
$1,500 one time
READY TO JOIN?
Let's talk and make sure it's a great fit.