Creating a healthy, happy marriage is a skill-set that most couples are never taught.

Most expect that just because their dating experience was great, that they will automatically know how to be married well.

They expect to be able to navigate anything together.

They expect to always be committed to the success of the marriage.

They expect to always be able to find a way to work through their differences.

They expect to grow and evolve together and always feel like a united team.

But in my decade of experience coaching couples on the brink of divorce, these things DO NOT happen and there is a current set of skills that unhappy couples are missing that makes all the difference.

Certain themes emerge that clearly point to a lack of understanding, emotional maturity, know-how, and mindset to truly create a healthy, happy marriage that lasts.

How to Be Married is a private coaching program designed to address and prevent the core issues that often lead to unhealthy, unhappy marriages..

You and your partner will learn how to show up as your best selves—through every season of marriage. You’ll build a foundation of open communication, create a deep and lasting emotional connection, and cultivate a fulfilling, thriving marriage that stands the test of time.

Each week, we will meet together and you'll walk away with the skills you need to not just survive in marriage, but to truly thrive—and enjoy a lifetime of happiness together.

Here are the specific topics we cover together:

How to Be Married helps you build the foundation for your marriage by teaching you how to BE your best as individual partners who then come together and create the healthiest and happiest marriage possible.

Specifically you will:

--> Handle your triggers well so you don't lash out or shut down when conflict arises

--> Always know what to do in tough situations so you don't regret the things you did or said in the heat of the moment

--> Create connection and grow closer, instead of building up walls and hurting each other when you are upset

--> Be a united team so that you and your partner always feel like you are working together even when you don't agree

--> Have sensitive conversations that end well because you have the skills and tools to communicate well and truly listen to each other

--> Consistently get along and enjoy each other because you both cherish your relationship and prioritize spending time together

--> Create a safe, intimate connection where you can work through any issue with kindness, respect, empathy and vulnerability