Marriage as a Mirror

Dr. Chavonne Perotte

Let's look at you.

Your marriage is a mirror.

The things that trigger you are invitations to look at yourself.

This is not something you will want to do.

It will be easier to blame your husband.

To make him responsible for your feelings.

It will be tempting to point out all that he's doing wrong.

But there is clarity and freedom in being able to see yourself clearly.

You understand the real issue.

You uncover how you are the best solution.

Trigger problems are often thought problems.

You tell yourself, he shouldn't do that.
You tell yourself, he should be more like this.
You tell yourself , he shouldn't say it that way.

You share these thoughts with him.
You explain it to him.
You try to convince him to believe them too.

Rarely does it work.

That's because the most effective way to minimize the impact of the triggers in your marriage, is to find new thoughts to think about each one.

I have 1,000 new thoughts to offer you.

Ones that will give you a new perspective.
New insight.
New awareness.

Of you.

You'll see what you no longer want to do.
How you no longer want to be.
What you will no longer say.

And you'll discover what all these triggers are trying to develop within you.

Let this be the year you look within yourself for the answers and solutions to improving the experience you have in your marriage.

I am the coach to help you do that. If you're looking for help right now, I invite you to schedule a complimentary call with me by